Sexuality for cis-men is often black and white, with anything other than heterosexuality being labeling as 'gay'.
Dear Poly, I was left out of a threesome that included my partner, her partner and her partner's wife. I'm feeling bummed out. Help?
Men often feel that if their partner wants love, support and/or sex from someone else, it's because they must be inadequate or deficient in some way.
Dear Poly, my partner and I disagree about how to manage almost everything so we fight a lot. Everything about being non-monogamous gets me worked up. Help?
The words used in the non-monogamous community are fluid and changing. Here is a list of frequently used words and our understanding of them.